I’m shaking right now. I just found a condom in my boyfriends wallet. We live together and have for 2 years now, we just had a beautiful baby boy who is 1 month old now and I literally don’t know what to do. How should I confront him? Should I just take my son and leave? Help

UPDATE: So I confronted him and he told me one of his guy friends gave it to him a while ago. I’m not sure what he meant by a while ago, but it was not there Friday and it’s Monday. I told him that if he was planning to use it and that if he was seeing another girl I’d rather us just have a open conversation about it. He told me it wasn’t nothing like that at all and even later thanked me for coming to him in a calm manner about it. I’ve now noticed all day he’s been texting this girl, so I asked him about it and he said it was his co worker. He works late nights and is supposed to get off at 1:30am but he always ends up coming home at 3 or 4 and says he had to stay late... thoughts??

UPDATE #2: Last night I asked him about his paystub. He showed me and low and behold there was only 1 hour of overtime documented and accounted for in his check for a total of 2 weeks, when he was staying till sometimes 3, 4 sometimes 4:30 in the morning almost every night when he is scheduled to work until 1:30 I asked him why there’s only 1 hour of overtime and he proceeded to “explain” that he doesn’t really understand how to read this jobs paystubs and there confusing. He’s still texting the girl, I see her name keep popping up so he’s still speaking to her after I had confronted him about and even told him it makes me uncomfortable! I’m really heartbroken over this and appreciate all of the advice and comments. I don’t have anywhere else to live (90% of my family lives far out of state, and my parents don’t approve of my lifestyle or that my son is of mixed race) and I don’t want to risk being on the street with my son, I really don’t know what to do, I’m still on maternity leave and I would absolutely work but I have no one to take care of my son while working. I feel stuck.

LAST & FINAL UPDATE: Alright ladies, saw all the texts, saw everything! This has been going on for 5 months now! They’ve hung out, gone on dates, you name it. They even tell each other “I love you”. He’s sent her pictures of our son. He even has lied to her about how he is a single parent and how his “baby mama” (aka me) doesn’t help out and he does most of the parenting! He said he told her that he broke up with me several months ago and stopped living with me several months ago. I also saw that he was planning on having her meet our son. I’ve never been more angry and upset. I feel completely betrayed. I have contacted some women’s help centers and hopefully I’ll hear back soon. I plan on asking my parents to see if I can sit down and talk with them about the situation. Thank you to everyone for giving me advice and wishing me and my son the best. I am so thankful for this app wouldn’t know what to do without any of you ladies giving me the advice and telling me to stay strong. ❤️

Okay UPDATE PT. LIKE 5 HOPEFULLY THE LAST

So I found out he’s been talking to not only that girl but another girl who doesn’t even live in the same state! They say I love you, he lies to her about how he doesn’t live with me. It’s actually pretty f’ing funny to me at this point how disgusting he is. I was able to find the girls social media and contacted her and told her everything. He snapped on me and said “you ruined a good thing with a good girl” I talked to my parents and they said until I can get on my feet I’m able to stay in the guest bedroom with my son. I prayed and prayed for someone to help and I definitely got my prayers answered, I’m in the process of moving all my stuff out of the apartment, which he’ll be getting evicted from because he can’t afford it without me. And forgot to mention that his car has my name on it and he’s on my insurance because he couldn’t afford it by himself so I’ll be taking his way of transportation & I honestly don’t feel bad at all about it. It’s absolutely the hardest thing I’ve ever been through and it’s so upsetting that my son is having to go through this. but I’m taking it one day at a time and starting to love myself again and all I see in my future is an amazing life with me and my son and that’s all I need. Thank you again for all of the words and prayers. I read all of your comments daily to remind myself to stay strong. ❤️❤️