Is it wrong to sleep with someone on the first night? You’ve been video chatting, phone calls, texts etc. You finally meet up and after dinner at a restaurant you guys have sex. Is it hoe-ish?

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Do whatever you’re comfortable with 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Who cares man!! I’m a strong believer in doing whatever the fuck you want as long as you’re not leading anyone on. If you just want to sleep with someone, tell them straight up they’re a one night stand and never talk to them again if you don’t want to. 
Do what makes you happy, but be honest about it.

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I personally would not be comfortable because I really need to know someone and trust them before I get physical with them. But if you're comfortable, and you consent to it, do whatever you want.

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You have sex at the restaurant??

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Met him at a party, we exchange numbers and texted for about a month. Then when we met up we had sex. No date no dinner 😅 and now he is my husband and we have a cute baby girl ♡♡

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I wouldn’t answer with “very hoe-ish” but in my personal opinion, I’d say sex on the first night or even after a few months can be too soon. You have no idea where that relationship will go, how long it’ll last, you barely know the guy and that isn’t something you can take back. I think in today’s day people don’t take having sex or making love as serious as they should. It’s your life, your body, but I personally think that getting to know someone for who they are, allowing them to get to know you for who you are, building a relationship and connection is much more important and shows a lot of respect for not only yourself but for your partner, too. There will be plenty of people to give you the answer you want, so I guess you decide what you feel is right for yourself.

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I mean.... I wouldn’t. I just would not be ready to have sex with someone so soon. Not to avoid being a hoe. But clearly that’s a concern of yours and you think he might think that’s trashy, so don’t do it if you are that worried about it.

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Not hoe-ish. Met my man at a party I threw. He caught my eye right away. We had sex the second time I saw him....and he asked me to move in with him a month and a half after that even though we weren’t bf/gf yet but were dating. 4 months into knowing each other we moved in together. 😊 Fast forward a few years to now and I’m pregnant with our first baby....a little girl. We are very happy together and are best friends. We often remember our first time having sex and honestly it’s still a turn on for me. Best of luck!

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If you’re completely comfortable with it and being safe and smart, then go for it!

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I man wouldn't have thought twice.

Is it wrong to sleep with someone on the first night? You’ve been video chatting, phone calls, texts etc. You finally meet up and after dinner at a restaurant you guys have sex. Is it hoe-ish?

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