Ok so here is my story I am 42 years old with my second child but like my first cause my daughter is 22 years old. I have a few friends and my daughter who want me to do a gender reveal , but I don’t know es hay to do . I am in a terrible relationship , my boyfriend whom I still don’t leave with don’t want one “ I really think he is hiding something and is afraid of pictures” because he said if I do one he won’t come , then my mom and sister whom are very judge mental and always criticizing my situation will defitnetly start criticizing at the gender reveal if they don’t see him there. So I don’t know what to do should I do a gender reveal despite my situation or just skip the embarrassment. I know I have to put an end to my relationship I was thinking of just doing it and if he doesn’t not show break it up for sure. Any ideas as to what to do in this type of situation ?