What do you ladies do to feel pretty?

Being a stay at home mom is super hard, I have two little ones and don't have time to get ready when we go out because I'm usually by myself because hubby is at work so it's almost impossible to put on some mascara and concealer 😂 even when my husband is home and I have time, I'm just so exhausted I can't be bothered! My hair is ALWAYS up in a bun and I haven't bought new clothes in a long time due to gaining weight after having bub.

I have an appointment in 2 weeks to cut my hair and do a balayage but I'd like more tips!