Does in body else feel this way?

My husband wants more babies and I do to but honestly as much as I love him I don’t want to have them anytime soon cause of his side of the family. There just so annoying and have changed the day I got pregnant. They tell em all the time all my son looks like everyone from there family and nothing like me. I made a comment the other day about having a little girl and she would look like me and his mom said “no she’s going to look like Sydney” (his sister) and it just puts me down like wth. I always tell my husband how I feel and just says Cause they have strong genes.