I'm 9 weeks pregnant and no one beside my husband and I knows, we plan on revealing it to the whole family when I'm 14 weeks. My sister just came out that's she's 5weeks pregnant and said "I wish you were pregnant too, so we can do everything together" I love my sister, but this is her second baby and granted she didn't have a baby shower for her first, I kinda want to do my own thing. My older brother is all about us doing everything together, we are two years apart. I honestly want to do my own thing, want to have my shower alone, take my pictures alone. Am I being selfish because my sister don't have that many friends and I know she will not have a shower. Should I do my own thing with my hubby or play nice and initiate asking her to have a joint baby shower and photo. 😪

Update: my sister is going through a miscarriage her hcg levels has dropped to 34 💔😭... I feel horrible now for being so selfish.