Porn is ruining my marriage...

I know this is posted a lot but i don't have anyone to talk to....

My husband never watched porn before the whole time we have been together until 2 years ago....

A friend he worked with got him addicted to it while they were on the jobis what he told me..... Now he is addicted.

He now chooses porn over me... He wants nothing to do with me just his phone. Its crazy how people can get addicted to it. I have spoke to him about it and he refuses to go to counseling with me. We will have 2 kids together soon.... I'm not sure what else I should do. I know this is anonymous but thats because I'm so embarrassed by this....😢😞