problem after problem i cant have sex

my body hates me i finally found a guy who treats me right and loves me but my body cant have sex . 1) i have herpes . 2) im in physical therapy for my pelvic floor muscles because they were so tight it felt like i was being stabbed in my vagina . 3) my skin is so sensitive rubbing my clit feels like rugburn no matter what and penetration will tear up my skin . how am i supposed to have sex how am i supposed to have self esteem what am i supposed to do how do i make my skin better im so tired