Courtship and dating

Good morning brothers and sisters,

So I am currently working on forgiveness and I’m in such a peaceful place that I do not want to actively date or attraction anyone that God hasn’t intended for me into my life.

I’m still learning about Christian dating but do you think we should wait in prayer and have faith that God will give us our husband or do we need to be proactive in 2020 and go on dating sites? Any thoughts?