Is it normal?

I have had sex since November. Now it’s March and I just had sex. And my period is due in 2 days. This was my third time having sex. The first two times I didn’t hurt. I feel like I just lost my virginity again. It hurt so bad and I was so dry and now my vagina is swollen. My guy was clean and I had just gotten tested (for everything and I thought I had herpes but I don’t) I look different down there and I’m incredibly sore. We wore a condom everything except for a few seconds on accident. Also I had just taken the last day of a series of third diflucan pills (I had three pills for M/W/F). I know I should’ve waited but I didn’t. I wanna cry from uncomfortable I am... advice?