Husband only wants 1 child..

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Anyone else’s SO only want 1 child? My husband and I have always discussed having 2 children. (I know in my heart I don’t want more than 2). But recently he’s telling me he only wants our son and has decided he won’t have anymore kids. He said if I want another it won’t be with him. I’m feeling devastated about this.. part of me is ok because I’m feeling relieved that I’m finally done breastfeeding and it’s so fun to see all of our baby’s firsts. But I also want our son to have a sibling and I just have a “feeling” that he’s not my last.

Husbands logic is, he didn’t know having a baby was this much work (which I totally get) and he would rather spend our time and money giving 1 child the best life instead of splitting it between 2. This also sounds good to me sometimes but I’m not sure! I obviously can’t make him do anything so I will have to try to wrap my mind around this. Anyone else experience this?