Venting

Sort of a long story, myself my boyfriend and my 13 month old live with my mom and her husband as of January. We broke our lease to our expensive apartment and are now saving money to get a more affordable place for our growing family. I am 26 weeks and I currently don’t work. I had to quit because my boss is a jerk and cut my hours to 5-8 hours a week. How am I supposed to raise a family off of that? I had 56 hours of vacation in my bank at work and he never let me take time off to use it so I quit because he was not willing to pay me out for it and it was just going to expire. He has to pay me for vacation if I quit before it expires. I spoke to my mother about this before doing so.

This is actually about my moms husband though.

I am obviously a SAHM and my bf works night 8-4. My mom and her husband work 7a-3p. I have saved quite a bit of money living here and we have a plan to be moving soon.

So today while they were working a young man knocked asking to clean the front yard for $40. I agreed because this house is a family heirloom and today is actually the anniversary of my great grandmas passing and it’s originally her house.

My moms husband works in construction and comes home everyday with the same friend and they sit in the backyard and get drunk. Every. Single. Day.

I am the one who cleans the kitchen, sweeps the floor, mops, pretty much maintains their home for them because he’s a drunk and she has just always kept her home this way. So her husband got mad that I paid the young man, who probably lost his job like a lot of other people have this week, to clean the yard. He then starts questioning my mother about if I am actually saving money and if I want to help out to do the dishes more often. I flipped out. I told her that I am not his maid, I did not come here to be his maid. I am a pregnant mother who has other priorities. I am doing my mother a favor getting her yard cleaned since he’s such a POS and can’t do it himself.

Am I wrong for being mad? Am I being hormonal? He’s on the top of my shit list and I can’t wait to get out of here.