Need serious advice
I have no idea if this is something that should go on here. Please move to a different forum if necessary.
My sister-in-law and brother were due with their first baby boy last week. They went in for an ultrasound and had a hard time finding the heart beat. She said she wasn’t feeling him move around much. He wasn’t in position. She was hell bent on having this baby the old-fashioned way. They scheduled an appointment today to see if she would need to be induced... baby John had passed.
I feel so horrible and can’t stop crying. I can’t even imagine how they feel or what they need. I just keep thinking about them going home to all the baby’s stuff with no baby. I’m so scared for them. I’m scared we won’t be able to hold a proper funeral for him. I’m scared they won’t be able to have children. I’m scared for their marriage. I’m scared for their health. I don’t know what to do for them.
And I’m also so angry. Why didn’t her Dr. take action sooner. Why didn’t exercise? Why was she so stubborn about having a natural birth? Why did this have to happen? Who let this happen?
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.