any mamas have any advice? my now 25 month old has been refusing to sleep

in crib. not for nap and not for bed. and it’s taking a huge toll on me. because i have to lay down with him every day at nap and bed for at least 1 1/2 hours before he even gets to start to fall asleep and then 99%of the time i end up falling asleep too. So i am getting nothing and i mean nothing done. my dishes are over flowing and my laundry is piled, because during the day i like to spend our time together not doing chores, i leave those for when he is sleeping. well now i have gotten nothing done at all and my hub works second shift , wakes up at like 11AM and leaves at like 1 PM and isn’t any help. i have bad anxiety and ocd, so my “me time” feels like an essential thing i need as well after my little man goes to bed. but i haven’t gotten any me time because of this like regression? and now i am under quarantine because of this fucking coronavirus bullshit, and so i can’t even take my kiddo to the park of anything to get him worn out and tired and have some fresh air for the both of us to keep our sanity. we live in an apartment with no yard as well so I am slowly but surely going insane.

i love my little boy of course SO much and i hate complaining because it makes me feel like a POS but i really just need an hour to myself and i need to find a way to get him back to his sleeping routine.