Ladies.. how did you get your man to shows some affection. We have been together for 3 years!! It seems things have changed. We recently moved in together and even though our sex is good. We only do it in the bed. Whereas before we were having car sex and sex in changing rooms. So spontaneous. Lately... things have changed. I have to ask for kisses. We dont make out. Sex is rub against and then he fucks me. It feels good but I want the passion. I feel since moving in well he isnt as touchy or into me. I'm confused. Tonight I texted him let's go on a date! Pick up a pizza and watch a movie in the car and have great car sex. He responded with let me ask my friends if we are still doing something. A couple nights ago I started grinding against him it was hot I was turned on enough to orgasm. Usually I'm not like that considering like I said above he rubs against me and we fuck. I went to take my panties off and he said are you bleeding to where I have to go wash off I responded with um we dont have to do anything it's fine. (I'm spotting from birth control). I laid there so empty. Because he said he never cares about blood. When I asked him in the morning he said he was too lazy to get up.. mind you because I'm bleeding it seems most nights I go down on him that's that. However, I noticed hes only the most into it (it seems) when I go down on him.

I've talked to my sister about this and her response was to stop seeing him as much and to move back home for a bit.. to not be so available or give so much..

But for me this is hard.. we have been dating for some time and I just dont know how to adjust.. I love him dearly. However, it feels like these last couple months there is more days he just is ehh with me. I've sent him nudes.. he doesnt respond. I'm lost.

When i say I'm going to be staying at my moms for some time.. he says no he wants me to be there with him

Sorry if this is long..

What have y'all done?

While kissing do you kiss the top or bottom lip?