A little bit of my crazy baby daddy drama.

If you don't like rants or people talking about their issues online I'd click away now. 😬✌🏽

So short story. September 2018 my boyfriend of almost 1 year and me got pregnant. It was more or less planned fincially we where both in the position to have a baby and it seemed like a good time and the right time and it was for me atleast. Shortly after I got pregnant he flaked freaking out saying he didn't want to be a Dad and "couldn't afford it". He quite his job and just basically went M.I.A until I was 9 months pregnant. Then I gave birth to a healthy baby boy on my own and he messaged me the day after then went M.I.A again for a month. Eventually he contacted me in July wanting to give me child support and to meet his son both to which I said yes hoping it was the start of a co-parenting relationship. I found out he had a girlfriend and I even tried to start a relationship with her and within two weeks my sons father broke up with his gf and insisted he was on the streets with no where to go. I offered my guest room to him and everything was going good till about half way through August then he started hanging out with his Ex again and spent the rest of August and begging of September messin around with her and her best friend and spent almost no time with his son. He began partying with them doing drugs and drinking and would come home late at night high as a kite or drunk and not see the issue or why I didn't want him to help with our infant. I found out on September 12th he quite his job and spent the day having a 3some getting high with the two girls. It was final straw I asked him to move out immediately and of course he moved in with the girls. Mind you he also had missed his rent and was eating my food taking advantage of my kindness all because he knew I wanted him and his son to have a relationship. In October I found out he got both girls pregnant one had an abortion and the other, his Ex, was keeping it and they where "back together" by this point he hadn't came for a visit in 3 weeks. In December his pregnant girlfriend decided she was "afraid I'd get back together with him and he'd leave her" so she forced him to move out of state with her without telling me him his girlfriend and her best friend (who was the one who had the abortion) moved. Now 5 months later the girl who got the abortion is back in my state due with my son's father's 3rd child and his girlfriend is still with him out of state. They both kicked her out because she lost her job and was no longer making money to help support them. And somehow his girlfriend is okay with him yet again abandoning another child. Just absolutely crazy, sad an pathetic on her and my son's father part.

I'm hoping the girl is smart enough to realize all my son's father wants is a piece of ass that will pay his way not a family not kids he's not ready for that clearly and I'm not sure seeing who he's turned into that he'll ever be. I'm hopeful if she does my son can have atleast one of his half sibling's in his life. I can deal with half siblings but the drama, and manipulation that comes along with my son's father and people who are romantically involved with him I can't do.