Mother is Emotionally immature

Jada • spiritual asf▪🇭🇹▪ let your light shine.🌞

What should I do I keep respecting my mother? She has had severe memory problems lately and when I let her know what she forgets she will blow. She gets so mad and storms off without realizing I'm just trying to help her. If she doesn't know something and I tell her, she will get angry and say I'm controlling her. If I have a different opinion than her she will say she wishes she could ship me off to live with my father and she wishes I wasn't alive. This is extremely hurtful and exhausting to deal with everyday after work. She is hurting me and herself. What should I do?