Anyone else child seem to genuinely fucking hate them?

I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but if my son wakes in the night and I go through, he just screams louder, throws his dummy out of the cot, throws his head back. But if Daddy goes through, he settles without a single problem.

With food, he's fine eating if I'm not in the room. But the moment I am, he throws his food around, he throws himself around, he starts screaming.

When I'm changing his nappy, he does everything he can to get away from me, and screams at me. But he sits mostly still when his Dad does it, and only makes the occasional noise.

I genuinely think he hates me. I can't have my partner dealing with the nights on his own. Any help?

Edit to add: If it's not food, sleep, or nappy change time, then he clings to me. Usually still screaming. At first I figured it might be teething, but even after using teething gel or whatever he's still just as bad. To the point where I cannot leave the room without him crying, even if someone else is in the room with him (including his Dad)