Do you think it’s ok to tell your boyfriend to quit entertaining his ex-wife?

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Reason I ask because they were in a toxic relationship and each time now he would ask for favor or anything she’s quick to say No! But it’s ok for her to side talk and ask things non related to their son. 
I’m not ok with him entertaining her.

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Tell him you’re not comfortable with it unless it’s about their kid. But you can’t force him to do anything nor should you. If you have to act like your partners parent then that’s a huge sign your relationship isn’t healthy either. Seems like he isnt over her.

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You can’t “tell” him. 
You can advise him why you think it’s a good idea, but don’t try force that decision on him. He needs to realise it on his own.

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If its not about their kids then nope. I let my man know from  the beginning i will leave if he does any kind of favor just for her so i let him choose and he chose me. Shes a super toxic person. I have  certain  standards and im the type of person  thats like if u dont agree with  them especially  when it comes  to the opposite  sex then u can bounce.  I love the mess out my man though and his children and im always there for him and his kids.
Call it insecure or selfish for the way i am idc hes happy and hes just fine and he chose this  lol

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That sounds like a great idea so he can parent his child. He's a grown man, he can stand up for himself. Concern is nice but your insecurities are your responsibility to work through.

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He is a grown man. She is the mother of his child. If he makes her miserable that can effect his relationship with his child.

Do you think it’s ok to tell your boyfriend to quit entertaining his ex-wife?

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