Feeling hurt and sad

So I have this friend that I have been getting close with over the past year, meeting once or twice a week. Well she and her husband were talking about moving out of state in July or August. So I knew it was coming. We'll, long story short, she went to visit her family over the weekend in the state that she is moving to. Also, my husband and her husband are good friends too. So my husband calls to check in with his friend since we are self-isolated as much as possible right now. He finds out that they moved. They found a place to live. I'm really hurt that my friend didn't tell me herself what was going on. Her husband said that she was scared or nervous to tell me. But it hurts more that I had to hear it from someone else. I know we can still call or text and they still have to come back to move all their stuff so it's not like I won't be able to say goodbye. And it's only one state away so it's not like we won't visit. But it hurts. And I'm sad.