I just want to know if I seem unreasonable at all because I am worried I might be. My husband has two sons with his ex and I do love those boys very much. When they stay here I take care of them while he's at work and I have no problem with them being here at all. Now with covid-19 their mom doesn't want them coming here. I can understand wanting to limit travel. My husband wants to go there to see them, usually not a problem as we have gone there together and got a hotel or even went there then came back the same day juts to see them as my 2 kids love them too. The thing is I'm being induced Thursday and might be having surgery Friday so Saturday when he wants to leave to go there and I just feel like maybe we could plan something else because I will either be just getting released or only home for a day with our new baby. I do not want to be unfair in any way and I do not want him to miss out on his visit but I feel like he's using leave from work to be with me and help with the baby so he shouldn't be leaving me so soon after all alone during recovery. Am I just being selfish?