My husband doesn’t come to bed with me. We’ve been together for 7 years and he used to. Especially when we didn’t have a kid, now obviously I go to bed earlier so I get some sleep. But for the past 3 years or so he stays up and plays his video games anywhere from 1-3 am. Every night. He never ever comes to bed with me. I don’t even remember the last time we cuddled?! Even after we have sex (which is almost never anymore) he gets up within 5 min of being done and goes downstairs to play his game. Would this bother you? Ivebrought it up and he says itshis only “free time” and doesn’t want to go to bed that early etc