Hard times

My long time partner and I have been going through a really hard time. Without making this an extremely long detailed post; it went from absolute worst, shocking issues, to counselling, healing and forgiveness. To now a really sad, awkward and distant time. He’s very somber, withdrawn, and I’m not even sure he’s really as invested as he was. He has been so committed to us and me. As well as healing from our trauma over the last 6 months or so. But now, he seems to be somewhere else... I’m really worried. Sad, and lonely. I could use some advice from those ladies who are in long term relationship, which are not unscathed from hard times. What was your experience, and did you two eventually work through it. It feels like we’re not close at all. I’m worried we’ll never pull out of this and get back to us :(

Thanks in advance xo