I've already had a post about this, but I'd like to explain it a little bit clearer. I am a 12 year old girl who is wearing just a plain 38 bra from I beleive Target. There's a huge gap at the top, it moves up when I do things which require my reaching out, and it's just plain uncomfortable. I have to take it off when I get home from school and it irritates my boobs a lot. They feel kind of sore, irritated, and they even look a little bit red. I've been nagging my mom over getting a new one for a month or so now. She says I just want an excuse to go shopping. I really want an underwire bra, the one I have now just isn't cutting it. Let me give you an idea of my size.  I measure a 39 for my bust and a 35 for my under bust. So, I'm a 36D. She just doesn't understand! She says I don't need underwire, and she argues that the bras I got at target at the beginning of the school year for fine then. I didn't have problems with my boobs hurting then. She says she'll take me bra shopping when I'm more developed. I'm already developing, she doesn't understand that, and it's just so frustrating! In fact, I would rather go bra less. I can't, however, because my nips would show through my shirt and my boobs would be too big for that.  I also have to change for PE in front of other girls daily. Help! There is an okay store near me, forever 21, and she says that it's not good quality and we shouldn't go there. Do you thing Target is better?!