It feels better when I do it than when my boyfriend does it?

So when I’m going solo I feel an intense build up and an amazing release.

Then when I get with my boyfriend and he starts to play with me I guess it’s not the same? I’m not sure why? I mean, I tell him what feels good but I end up squirting instead of actually reaching a big orgasm. I’ve only gotten close to a big one by moving my hips on him while he’s doing it but I want him to be able to do that for me.

Any tips?