Should i leave him?-

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So the story is kinda complicated let me give you the back story first.
We’ve been together 4.5yrs, bought a house together and have been ttc 1yr. - I’m actually on my 2nd day of clomid 3rd cycle. So I kinda need advice fast on wether to continue or not. 
Ok so 
He went out and I went through his photos on his old phone and I came across a video of a girl touching herself in his recently deleted. I was a complete wreck. I immediately sent it to him and asked who she was. He replied one of his friends sent it to him in a group chat and then he saved it and sent it to his other group chat. 
FINE, that story checked out- I had his old phone so I was able to see the texts and that was true. 
BUTT what he forgot to leave out is when he did send it to the other group text with the guys he said “wifeys gone I still got game” IMPLYING he’s cheating on me. 
Why would you want to show off you’re cheating on your gf if you’re ttc?
I feel like it makes me look so dumb and that he is so DISRESPECTFUL. I have never felt a bigger slap in the face. I sorta wish he just cheated because then he’d actually have to put some effort into it.  Lol 
Anyways, I left the house but obviously it’s not that easy. He’s apologized 100x and is being sincere but I don’t even ever want to face his friends now or anyone. Do they seriously think he’s cheating on me? Idk maybe I’m overthinking it and clomid has all my emotions in a bunch and he’s just being a guy. Idk 🤷‍♀️
(PA. No I don’t think he’d cheat on me- I believe he has been and would continue to be faithful)
UPDATE:
1. I wasn’t snooping for anything bad, I was looking for photos because were making a gallery wall. Hence why I didn’t see his friend sent him the video or that he sent it out. 
2. He’s not upset I went through his phone.
3. It was less than a month ago

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A) you had no right to go through his stuff. I think you are totally in the wrongand if I was him I would be pissed
B) you found what he said was true and he just sent it in the group
C) he is a guy and they say and do dumb shit especially around each other it doesn't mean there is any truth behind it

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Actually no, I wouldn't say that comment implied he cheated.
I once went out with my coworkers and some guy hit on me on our way out and I immediately messaged my husband and told him I've still got it and told him the story. We have that kind of relationship where we can tell each other these things. 
If you're snooping on his phone then he probably doesn't think he can tell you these things

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It was a stupid joke. I don’t think it’s worth ruining an entire relationship and potential family over. It was a lame moment, yes, but he didn’t actually do anything.

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If I were you, I would hold off on ttc. Whoever you’re with needs to respect you and everything about him sending the video to his friends to him lying to you is disrespectful. You need to let him know where you stand and what’s acceptable. In my book, that would never be acceptable. Girls make excuses for guys saying “guys will be guys. That’s normal” when in fact that’s not okay & shouldn’t be consider normal. Ever. What has become normal is allowing guys to walk all over girls and brainwashing girls into believing what they are doing is okay. Girls, let’s respect ourselves more than to allow “guys to be guys”. I’m not saying you should leave, that’s your choice but I am saying he should know he overstepped boundaries. Don’t let him talk you into believing what he did was okay.

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I think he learned his lesson, this seems like locker room messaging, nothing more. I would roll my eyes and move on. Good luck with the baby.

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Nah I wouldnt keep trying for a baby. Of course hea gonna apologize 100 times...and dont even think about asking his buddies for confirmation because they'll all lie through their teeth. I think you'll always be uncomfortable around them now too because you'll wonder what else they all know. I couldnt

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1. I agree, going through his stuff is a huge breach of trust and privacy. Are you fishing around for a reason not to trust him or what? What motivated you to go through the phone? 
2. Still got game could also refer to masturbating couldn't it? That's what I assumed with pornographic videos involved.
3. How long ago did this happen??
Guys share stuff like that... If you didn't already have a talk about whether or not porn was OK, then he hasn't done anything wrong other than messing around with his guy friends in a group text.
Maybe you need to do some couples counseling and get this worked out so you can move past it. I wouldn't have been happy but I also don't go through my husband's stuff looking for trouble. And there's no real evidence he cheated. And you admitted you don't think he would. Sooo I don't see a real problem here.
But if you don't trust someone enough to go through their old phones and confront them with old stuff, maybe you should reconsider having a child with him.
And deactivate and get rid of the phone. No reason to keep an old phone.

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He sounds really lame and I don’t know that i would trust him.... let alone have a baby with him.

Should i leave him?-

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