I feel bad about asking my husband to have sperm tested. Neither of us have gone to a specialist yet, of course we haven't hit the one year mark yet. We've hit past 10 months now tho, which I know doesn't seem like that long. But here's the thing. I have super regular periods, always have. Never been on any form of birth control, never taken any medications long term nor had any health issues. Now, I know it's still possible I have issues, since I've never had any testing done myself, it just seems unlikely ya know. Is it normal to take this long while ttc for some? I cant help but feel he's gonna need to get tested, but I feel terrible even thinking that, let alone asking him.