She is my age 28. Her mother has know since she was about 20 and I have known since she was 17. She hate been with the same girl in hiding for 3 years. She decided to tell her dad who promptly told her he didn’t agree with her lesbian life styler, her girlfriend isn’t aloud at his house or family gatherings and when the time comes hope she will pick her family over her ,again, lesbian lifestyle. Fast forward about a month later. They are now engaged and she has put it on her Facebook with photos. I am so so happy for her. She was hiding so long and was scared her dad was going to disown her. Though is response could have been better he may come around. 🤷🏻‍♀️ now today she gets another message she didn’t tell me who it was from. It simply said this. She is religious another reason she hid for so long. And I fee so bad for her she very upset because of her dad and whoever this is. She didn’t just wake up one morning and chose to be gay. Thought yes this sounds super fun to cause people to judge me and for my Dad and I to fight sounds really great. She tried being with one guy she wasn’t into it. Didn’t last very long. It’s not bc she hasn’t met the “right” guy. I’m not religious and tbh I’ve never even read the Bible so I can’t speak a lot on it but isn’t God suppose you be all forgiving? Or is just gays who never get to be forgiven? I didn’t have to deal with anything like this when I came out and I want to be there for her as much as I can. Her fiancé is so so amazing and sweet. I have never seen my best friend so happy and I don’t want people to steal that away or make her go back into hiding. Everyone deserves love and happiness no matter the gender. I just really needed to vent.