condoms?? anal??

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Do you have to use a condom when your doing anal? And what are some tips because i feel like it would rlly hurt

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basically wear a condom if you don’t want STDs. because they can still be passed. but preferably it’s up to you & your partner. anal is something you have to lean into. not just jump right into it. like sticking your finger in first to see how it feels. then anal beads. Or butt plugs. & lots & lots of lube. some people like it. some people don’t. I’ve never done it until my boyfriend who I’m with right now & we didn’t do it for awhile. & it was something we had to lean into.

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Reasons for condom:
1. STIs
2. TECHNICALLY if it’s male and female anal, there is a small chance that the female could get pregnant (just because of proximity to vagina)

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And make sure what always helped me is I breathe out which helps relax you and also on all 4s until you build your tolerance to try a different positions. And I always backed up to take it slow as the penetration happened.

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No you don’t have to use condoms. They sell desensitizing lube at sex shops those help as well as I recommend getting an anal plug. Put that in while you have sex and then when you are ready to do anal if that same night pull out the plug gently and then they can penetrate without issues going in

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It shouldn’t hurt if you do it properly. Start small, lube lube lube and go slow. Have a safe word as well and communicate clearly how you’re feeling. If it starts to hurt at ALL, stop. You can do damage if you push to hard or fast. But it’s completely possible to have a safe fun and pain free time! Make sure you research any toys well before using them and again, communication is vital.