What should i do

I wanna talk to my boyfriend about concerns i have with our relationship that are weighing on me, i feel like he doesn’t appreciate me that much anymore.... he is going through a job transition though and maybe he’s stressed and i don’t wanna stress him out further. Should i still have this talk with him? We can see each other in person, i’m so afraid of losing him, but i feel like i need to remember that i habe needs as well and i cant keep having panic attacks at night without any support from my bf. He plays video games with his friends for hours while i’m having anxiety and crying, and that’s okay. I just wish he was a little more thoughtful of my feelings. what should i do?