So today my boyfriend and I were talking about porn. We have always been very open to each other about everything. He watches porn and I don’t care because I watch it too but that’s not the point. I was curious so I asked him what kind of porn he likes and he wouldn’t answer so I jokingly grabbed his phone and then he tackled me off the bed and then deleted all of his history on his phone. He was super defensive and I said what is the big deal? I have never gone through his phone without his permission. I wasn’t even going through it I just held it in my hand. He said it’s too weird to talk about which gave me red flags. It made me feel like there is something else going on he doesn’t want me to know about. I have never questioned my relationship until now. I feel like I have lost some trust with him. I have tried to talk to him but he just shuts me down. Am I over reacting? I have been hurt in my past relationships and I try not to bring that baggage into his relationship but now I’m hurt and confused.