Bleeding first few times

So I had just recently lost my virginity and I only bled a little the first time (i’m assuming because it didn’t completely penetrate) and then the second time i bled a lot more, i’m no longer with the person i lost it to and i’ve been trying to experiment in hook up culture but i’m afraid i might bleed again. this would only be my third time so i’m afraid if i go too hard i’ll bleed and embarrass myself. i’ve maturbated since the first two times but i’m not sure if i would still bleed with a guy, does anyone know how many times it’s normal for you to bleed after you loose your virginity?