Sex tips?

Question

Any of y’all have suggestions for painful sex if your partner is either too girthy or too long for you? 
We’ve been married two years and we still haven’t really found a consistent way to have sex without pain for me. 
Background: I was a virgin when we got married so I’ve never experienced sex with anyone else to compare size.  I’m just guessing at this point. 
Help?

Answer

I guess you could try again google-ing more comfortable positions for women and seeing which ones you are willing to try, try being on top as you are in more control and that might be more comfortable for you, using any lube to be extra moist, erm what else could you, remind your partner to start slow and make you sure you are moist enough and comfortable ALWAYS before having sex not sure what else can you do🥺 More fore play?

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Ask him not to put it all the way in!

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If he’s too long and hitting your Cervix every time then he needs to slow down and not go so deep. But if it’s girth it’s just something you’ll have to get used to in time. I dated a guy with a long penis and I wouldn’t do doggy style with him at any point because it hurt too bad. I would only get on top and do missionary and side lying so I could control how much he put in. 
If it’s painful because you’re not wet enough then he needs to work on foreplay. No one should just be shoving it in you without getting you wet first either by tongue or fingers. My guy typically gets me to orgasm before we have intercourse. That way I’m dripping and it’s easy going from there.

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I’m in the same boat 😣