Stressed, hurt, in need of the hard truth.

Damaris

So my husband has a daughter, she’s 28 years old. She’s been the only child all of her life. She has her own life, recently married, has a career everything. Now, I’m 23 weeks pregnant with my first( his second). There’s been several occasions his daughter will comment about our relationship(he is significantly older) and claim she was talk about her other friend. Naturally I’ll get hurt, ive shed my tears and he will always side with her. We were on a cruise and she mentioned at the dinner table how we shouldn’t have kids and how he spoke to his dad about it. When we told her we were expecting, her reaction was, “how did you allow this to happen?” “Why weren’t you using any protection?” “You should have been more careful”. I was angered but brushed it off. Several weeks ago, she told my husband how she wants absolutely nothing to do with our son, no dealings with him. She deleted me of Facebook so she can avoid seeing me post about my pregnancy. And what did my husband do, nothing, just fed into his daughter. But not to even stand up for his unborn son? To not even tell her that it’s not fair to have hate towards an innocent child. I’m angry and hurt at my husband because here I am as always fighting for my rights as wife, but now having to fight for my son. Or maybe I’m wrong in all of this. I’m just lost right now and don’t know what to think.