my boyfriend and I (both 18, been together for 4 years), had a talk about sex (more so the intercourse part of sex)

He explained how it’s important to him, a healthy sexual and physical part of the relationship and how recently it’s gone downhill

I admit I haven’t been putting as much effort recently as I’ve just been tired and overall not as honey, especially if I’ve finished

So I suggested that we try him finishing before I do since I get super tired after

Basically I don’t feel ready for intercourse, mostly because I’m scared of being pregnant. He thinks our sex life is getting boring and wants to have intercourse but only if I want too

So now we’re in this dilemma where his sex drive is way higher than mine is

I feel bad making him wait, I’m not really sure what to do other than try to be more enthusiastic and give more oral 🤷🏻‍♀️

and this whole ‘boring’ thing has only been like two weeks because we haven’t done many things recently

how often do most people do sexual stuff? genuinely curious