So actually, he doesn’t even do that. I’ll start this by saying my husband works overnight and a ton of mandatory overtime. However on a regular day he would leave at 10pm and get home at 7am. Our 1.5 year old goes to bed at 9/10pm and wakes up at 9/10am. When he gets home he doesn’t want to go to sleep so he’ll stay up until she wakes up or try to put her back to bed. Then he will sleep all day and has a major attitude when I try to wake him up! Am I wrong here? Should he not be helping more? Also, not to forget that he doesn’t bathe her, make sure she has clean clothes, feed her.. I feel like a terrible mom because I can take care of her myself but I would like her to have a present father.