No noise?

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So my boyfriend doesnt make any noises during sex and he says there isnt anything wrong he just doesn't make noise. But I feel like he doesnt like our sex because he doesnt make noise but I do. Am I reading into it?

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Ok so my husband and I have/had this problem. We’ve been married for years now but when we were dating I told him to make some noise or say something bc it was weird. I MADE A MISTAKE ASKING!!!!!! I made a mistake. 😂 
This fool while going to pound town... ok, I said can you at least talk dirty just say one thing. This big idiot randomly shouts out “You dirty whore” and I jumped up and couldn’t stop laughing. Ruined it. Now it’s just a huge joke for us. 
Let the sleeping beast sleep. Don’t even ask for him to make noise. It’ll be weird. Idgaf if he don’t make a peep as long as he’s not shouting out random stuff. 😂 Some of this shit he says now because I opened that door is dumb af/hilarious/weird I mean the list could go on but please lmao don’t probe. It’s a weird situation now. 🤣
*side note: my husband never talks offensively to or about women until sex I just had to ask 7 years ago.

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Maybe he is used to bieng quiet because of other people in the house or something

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Mine doesn't like making sounds because he said it makes him feel like a cheesy porno. I understand wanting some noise, I'm a very vocal lover. But every once in a while I'll hear him say something under his breath. Idk but somehow that's so much better than him going overboard. Nothing wrong with jt.

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Mine doesn’t make any noises and he says it’s because he’s concentrating so hard on not finishing too quickly because with my noises, he can’t help it LOL

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Okay my boyfriend used to be damn near silent during sex, and it kind of freaked me out lol. So one day afterward I just asked him if there was a reason why he doesn’t really make noise or talk to me or anything during sex, and turns out he was just self conscious! He even admitted to sometimes holding back moans or from saying things..so I reassured him, and was nice to him about it and we talked it out. It took a couple times and some more reassurance but now he is very vocal during sex lol. Men have insecurities too! Build your man up and talk openly and honestly and respectfully and you will get so far!! 😊😊

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Maybe he’s just concentrating really hard🤷🏻‍♀️ I can see why you’d be self conscious about it but look at his face & if he looks like he’s just concentrating or having fun don’t trip. Maybe ask him if there’s something specific he’d like to do🤷🏻‍♀️ does he have any heavy breathing?

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My ex was really quiet. I was very loud. Then one day I found out his mom was living just above him. Ooops 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

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My boyfriend was exactly the same when we started dating, I told him how I was feeling and now he at least makes a minimal amount of noise so I know he likes it 😂

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My husband is quiet during anything sex related. Your okay girl. Guys are just different

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My boyfriend would breathe heavy but that was all I got. One night we got drunk and had sex idk what happened to him but now he makes noises. I think he was self conscious about how he would sound.

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