No sex drive. Will it affect my marriage?

Toni Ann

So I’m currently 28 weeks pregnant and for the last couple of weeks I’ve had no sex drive. When this all started my husband and I would still have sex. Just not as often as I used to but I burn out so fast now and his stamina is CRAZY! And I’ve been getting pretty bad cramps during sex.

He’s been saying it’s fine and he understands. But I still worry that it’s causing a strain. We haven’t had sex in about 2 weeks or even longer and he does ask a lot. I get sad saying no to him but thinking of sex just makes me think of cramps and being exhausted. Also the last 1-2 times we did have sex I didn’t enjoy it like I used to. Our sex life used to be AMAZING. Now if we do have sex in my head I just want it to be over and I feel so guilty for that.

Sometimes he jokingly says I’m not attracted to him or he gets shocked when certain things that usually would turn me on don’t affect me at all.

Has anyone else gone through this and is there anything I can do?