When will I ever stop thinking about my mc at 7w 1day?

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Im 41 and recently suffered a mc at just over 7 wks dh and I were both devastated but he hid his hurt I on the other hand constantly think about it and get upset at the drop of a hat. Will it get better?

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It does. But it took me a long time. And the worst part was that when I got pregnant again, I was so fearful.

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It will. You'll never forget but you will move forward. Give yourself time and take it day by day. Sorry for your loss.

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I like to allow myself "bad days"...you can't let every day be a bad day because I had enough of those right after my miscarriage and all the crying is exhausting.  At first it was one bad day a week but now I'm trying to only have one bad day a month. I know how hard it is to stay positive, but just try not to let the bad days consume your whole life.

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I had a mc last year on August 16, and an ectopic pg last year on November 13. 
​It's hard.... It does get better but it's something that I think about a lot. How far along the baby would have been, how old, once my due dates came around, if the babies were boys or girls,etc.
​I thank God I have a 3 year old to keep me busy .... We are trying for baby number 4 and it's hard.... The fear that I souls t have comes to play in my mind. 
​You will and you can make it!!!! Praying and thinking of you and your husband tonight.

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Hi Sonia, I've had 2 mc in 4 months, the first being in April. There hasn't been a day yet where I don't think about it but the pain and hurt isn't as bad some days as it is others. Don't be afraid to cry and tell your partner how you're feeling, it does help to talk even if it's difficult. I couldn't have got through any of this without mine that's for sure xx

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It's been 9 months since I had my miscarriage at 12 weeks 4 days and I still hurt everyday for my angel baby! But I know one day I'll have my rainbow baby

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It will get better but you won't forget about your baby. I had one July 29, 2013 at 5 weeks and 2 days and still think of our baby. It is tough, but you'll get through it. My husband and I didn't try right away. Still not pregnant yet, but I know it will happen if The Lord wants us to have one. Very tough at church, or anywhere, when there are baby announcements. Find you someone to talk to about it. That has helped me. I'm not saying a therapist persay, but a friend who has been through one. Praying for you and all the ladies on here that is going though a loss(es).

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It will get easier, but you won't forget completely. I had 2 miscarriages, one in 2001 & the other in 2003. I still think about those babies from time to time. I wonder what my life would be like if they were here with me.

When will I ever stop thinking about my mc at 7w 1day?

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