If my husband wants to go to the strip club then he needs to be okay with me dancing at one 😂

If my man goes to a strip club with his friends, then all his friends are gonna see me naked. Let's see how he likes sexualizing women with his friends when it's his girl up there ✌🏼️

I don't think strip clubs are a bad thing. For my 18th birthday I went to a male strip club and had a blast, and at the time I also had a long term boyfriend. It's all about trust. I mean most of the time at strip clubs you can't openly grope the dancers, and they aren't all shady operations. I would be okay with my man going to a strip club, hell I'd probably tag along because it'd be fun. The bottom line is trusting your man. Because it doesn't matter what the strippers do, it's all about what your man does.

I'd absolutely hate it. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I'm still anxious and insecure about stuff like that. I honestly don't see the need of anyone having to go to someplace like that if you're in a relationship, things like that should be kept to the bedroom and your man should only have eyes for you...that's my opinion anyway. Probably cause I have no self esteem what so ever and I'm always paranoid he'd find someone better than me. I don't think I'd ever allow him to go to one, just as much as he wouldn't want me to go to one.

I honestly don't know what I'd say if my boyfriend were to tell me he was going to a strip club with whoever. And I'm thankful that he's not the kind to do it. If you want someone to shake their ass and grind all over you, I'm more than happy to as your girlfriend. You don't need to ask...and you definitely don't need to pay. It'd be disturbing for me. I fully trust my boyfriend. And as someone said, it all depends on what kind of relationship you're in. If you're married...no ifs, ands or but...I don't think you should even be considering it.

If he's really that desperate I'm more than happy to strip for him! 😂

strip clubs are just visual. chances are, your boyfriend is also watching porn. the only difference is that one is in real life and the other is on a screen. there's nothing wrong with feeding his fantasies in a safe and healthy way. as long as he's just looking, no one is cheating!

I mean , mine does with his brother ; I don't see why it would be an issue . But I think if you two are married , strip clubs are off limits

I would never let mine just because of his friend group. Their all a bunch of non-thinking impulsive sickos.

My SO and I used to go to strip clubs just for fun right after we turned 21. I got a whole night out for free cause I never had to pay for a drink. Once I got pregnant I stopped going; he kept going with his friends every once in a while. I'm completely secure in my relationship and myself so I never had a problem with it. I will say that once we had our daughter he stopped going completely. Said its weird to see girls dancing like that; I think it's cause he realized its someone's daughter up there and wouldn't want his own daughter dancing for $. I think it's up to you, your relationship, and how comfortable you feel with it. He should be open to hearing you out, if you have a problem with it.

Do you think it's okay for your boyfriend to go to a strip club every once in a while?

It • Thu, Nov 05

Why or why not?

Vote below to see results!

Comment

You

Add Comment