Break or break up?
(I posted this in the sex and relationship group too so i can hopefully get more advice, so sorry if you are seeing this twice!!)
So, my girlfriend suddenly asked for a break and I’m not sure if I should carry on being in a kinda unhappy relationship or just break up with her. I’ve felt for the past couple weeks or so that we are constantly fighting and arguing for no reason and our communication skills are seriously horrible. I’ve told her countless times that if shes upset at me then she should just tell me and not be really moody towards me and not actually tell me whats wrong, or make statuses that are CLEARLY about me for example. she made a status saying “ppl are so dry” which was about me and I confronted her about it because she has done this so many times. She kept denying it was about me and then finally admitted it was. I just feel like she’s been treating really badly and there have been SO MANY bad situations where I should have broken up with her but I’m too scared to as I’m scared of what she’s going to make her friends do to me if I break up with her :\ I feel unhappy and this doesn’t feel like what a relationship is supposed to be like, it doesn’t even feel like a friendship? We’re just constantly attacking eachother. She has always been rude to me and I don’t say anything but recently I have been rude back to her and she’s obviously upset about that too lol. Can someone PLEASE tell me what to say in order to break up with her because i’m worried about rumours she will spread about me or that she will send her friends after me. Or if I should even break up with her in the first place or just take a break like she suggested?
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