Here’s the thing... I believe is good to have an open relationship. My boyfriend and I are open minded. We’ve been together for 1 Year and a couple of months. Last night we were talking about having a threesome with a girl we both like and feel a good connection just to have fun sexually (I was the one that came out with the idea) It has to be with the same girl if we want to keep doing threesomes later on cause we don’t want to risk on getting infections or any STD. The only thing he doesn’t want is to have a threesome with a guy. He didn’t specify why! He has done it in the past with one of his guy friend and a random girl just because they were bored and they didn’t have anything else to do that day (that was actually his very first time and told me he felt awkward about it) I have never done a threesome, ever! And I actually want to try both ways... a girl, my bf and I, and a guy, my bf and I. I believe he doesn’t want another guy to fuck me. I’m very open with my relationship and don’t mind sharing my man if he shares with me too🤷🏼‍♀️ but I feel sometimes I want a man that can please me to the max along with my boyfriend to make it more fun for me as well. We don’t have sex unless I make the move. He doesn’t really care that much about it, I’m the horny one must of the time. We enjoy having sex since we barely do it and I always come with the sexy ideas but sometimes I get tired cause I’m always the one that makes the move. When we talk about the stuff I would like him to do to me it feels awkward sometimes. He told me he doesn’t have any sexual desires, fetish’s, or any other thing that has to be with sex. If I come with the ideas he’s cool with it and he can do it, but nothing that has to include another guy in our relationship. A girl is fine. In this case. How should I convince him to have a threesome not only with a girl but also a guy?