Title says it all. I actually have a crazy high sex drive and most of my past and current relationships have been so surprised that I have insanely high sex drive. It’s always been this way. In the beginning of my relationship it even created problems because it got to the point where I would shamelessly beg for sex even though we had already done it for the day.

Anyways—fast forward 5 years later and we now have a baby. I have absolutely lost my sex drive. Like zilch, nada, nothing at all. I’ve had postpartum depression so I chalked it up to that. However, it’s been weeks, months and almost a year even. I don’t want to be touch and I don’t even masturbate at all. This is coming from a girl whose begged for sex multiple times a day.

What the heck do I do? I feel like now I’m failing my fiancé because I know exactly how it feels to want sex and not have it. It was frustrating, made me moody, etc... and now ironically, I know how it feels to not want to have sex. However, my fiancée is now the one begging lol

P.S.

Begging is not a bad word here.