Lately me and my long distance boyfriend have been going through a tense dispute that’s not like anything we’ve dealt with before. Twice a week and It’s actually quite alarming to me because it’s him getting agitated to things thats never been a issue in our year and 10 months relationship. I confronted him however to see a way we can find the problem because I did not like this side to him. We unfortunately didn’t get anywhere, Infact the situation blew up worse when I told him I was going to give him space for a few days because it seemed like he was taking whatever it is he’s going through on me. He had openly said

“ If you disappear for a couple days then you can keep it going for the rest of the year I’m serious”

that entire thing hurt but we managed to go around it without a fix because he lost interest in talking about this and since then it hasn’t necessarily been the same. Today I learned that he is currently in quarantine with his baby’s mother. Because a member in her household reportedly has the virus so her and her son had to flee and she turned to my boyfriend. Now the situation is totally understandable and seems innocent. she clearly has no where to go so she turned to her baby’s father. But the only thing here is that the “baby mother” is no where near innocent. I say this because before he met me the two of them were just flings that did a little casual sex here and there and their baby resulted from one of these events. My boyfriend had accidentally fertilized her and he quickly acted fast and got her a plan b. She lied saying she took it then chose to have his baby without his knowledge. She hid this from him for a year and 7 months before she decided she wanted him to help her raise him. He was in disbelief but accepted the forced fatherhood when the dna tests came back stating he is the father of that beautiful baby boy. Not only is that messed up but it’s alarming. He got detained recently in another city a hour away from where he lived and was jailed for 3 weeks back in March and I had no idea because he didn’t call nor send me texts. The baby mother was apparently there at the jail where she openly paid his bond to be released. I didn’t say nothing because her intention could have JUST been to get her sons father out of jail. But a part of me is not so sure about that being the case. just like how a part of me isn’t sure about this new situation where she’s living with him. Do you guys think I’m tripping and this is just some sort of jealousy I need to handle or It’s not jealousy and that this situation is very fishy.