After 5 years of BFNs my husband and I gave up on trying to have a baby on our own. We hadn’t used protection during our entire 8-year relationship, and have been actively trying for 5 years. Never even a glimmer of a BFP. We decided that next year we were going to try one round of

<a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>

, and if that didn’t work then we agreed adoption was for us.

Someone else had other plans though. Amidst Coronavirus, my husband’s new job , and moving out of state we had sex ONE time last month. I was no longer tracking my cycles, we both just needed a stress relief from the scariness of the virus, being quarantined, while trying to sell and then buy a new home out of state.

Welp. Once was all it took I guess.