Where did my friends go?

When I was pregnant my friends texted me ever other day to ask how I was feeling. Now that they know I've miscarried messages of support have dried up. One girl even went so far as to try and get me to come see her newborn triplets without acknowledging that my dead baby was still inside me. What is wrong with everyone?? It makes me feel so alone that they'd rather make it easier on themselves than me.