My bf and I have been together for almost 5 years, and I only have 1 other friend besides him so he’s a huge part of my life... and now we’re both stuck quarantining at our own homes with our families.

But now he’s telling me his parents are fine with me coming to stay in quarantine with them, which sounds perfect to me bc I love his family as well, and I want to get tf out of my family’s house. I think this is pretty reasonable, considering I’m 21.

However my bf lives with his parents, older sister, nephew, brother, and grandmother. His father is also a nurse so he’s been going between the house and the hospital most days.

But the main problem is, I’m scared to even bring it up with my Mom, who is quite overbearing as well as religious, so she doesn’t even like me spending the night with my bf.

Even before COVID-19 started, my mom has really really REALLY been getting on my nerves. I live in small apartment with my brother sister mom and dad, who are all great, but my mom is also very loud and talks nonstop (not an exaggeration) and she makes me more annoyed than anyone else I’ve ever known.

I would love to hear some suggestions on how to talk to her about this, or if you think it’s a bad idea.

TLDR: I’m going crazy living in a small space w my family esp my mom so bf invites me to quarantine in his family’s house, which includes his grandmother who is at-risk, and his father who is a nurse so he goes to a hospital most days. I really want to go to bf’s but I’m scared to ask my mom bc I know she’ll be very offended and worked up and go against it strongly. How do I talk to her about it??