Hey ladies, so I have this dilemma. I am planning on moving to the Netherlands (from Texas) and I wanted to meet people before I went out there, you know for safety reasons. I

so I used Tinder passport, a new function on tinder that allows you to meet people from all over the world, which was cool. I matched boys and girls because I really was looking for local friends near Amsterdam. I met a few but this one guy... definitely stood out.

We’ll call him Chase, well chase is from Amsterdam and he is Moluccan and White, I am black. He and I have been talking for the past 2 weeks and getting extremely knowledgeable of each other, we talk on FaceTime, we text all day since it’s quarantine and we’ve developed a good relationship. He plans to come to America after the Coronavirus pandemic slows down, which I can totally wait for. We’ve been planning and talking about hypotheticals and our first meeting and I really like him but I never thought to ask his age?

So yesterday I asked and he says 18, turning 19.

I don’t know what I want to do, this man is the most gorgeous man I’ve ever seen. I am 20 years old, next year 21 but he’s not turning 19 until September. So I’m like a year and 6months his senior. I dont know. I’ve never dated anyone younger than me. He’s 6” and I’m 5’5 so it isn’t crazy noticeable. Is it weird y’all. I like him anyway, I just don’t know what to do.

Alert: this post wasn’t made to offend anyone or misrepresent a group of anyone. I legit was just asking a question if it was weird, my sister is only 3 months younger than him so as a big sister to someone THAT AGE, it’s just a little odd. Please stop coming for me like I am an idiot.