Uhh.. Love?

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Okay, so I’ve been with my boyfriend for 10 months now... and neither one of us has said “I love you” to each other. When is that supposed to happen??? Are we just supposed to come to an agreement or like what? How do you do this! All my friends who are in long committed relationships said that they told one another “I love you” after a month of dating. AM I DOING THIS WRONG LIKE PLS HELP.

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my boyfriend said it after three months and I said it back but wasn't really sure until like a week later lol

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Everyone does it at their own pace.

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I guess you say it when you feel it's there. Me and my boyfriend said it very early in our relationship, but because we felt it, it's not something that you can program or choose to say. If it's there you know.

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My SO said it the day after we started dating, and I waited until later that month to say it via text and a little longer to say it in words because I wanted to be sure I felt the same way. 
It differs from couple to couple. Ten months seems a bit odd to me, though.

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My bf and I said it around 4 months. I felt it deep down. I knew I love him.  Before he went home I would remind him how much I like him. And say I really really like you. (My way of saying I love you) went on for a week or two until I had the courage and told him why i would say that. That same night he whispered in my ear I Love you. I was in shock. I'm glad it turned out the way it did.

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My boyfriend and I are just about at the 11 month mark and haven’t said it to each other. He was still getting over a long relationship when we started dating and I’ve never said it to someone before so even though we’ve discussed kids and living together and marriage neither of us has said it. We both think actions are more important than words so even though we haven’t said “I love you” I feel like we show it to each other all the time.

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I told my partner at 3 months or so of dating. It just felt right and I wanted to tell him. 
I’ve had guys tell me much later or on the third date 😬 really depends on the person. If you feel it though, tell them!

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After a month is js way too soon in my opinion i need to know a guy first n then my feelings will grow over time. And no, it's not an agreement if you feel like ur in love and u r ready to say it, js tell him♥️

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My partner said it after about four months, every relationship is different though you should probably have a conversation about where your relationship is heading.

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