My boyfriend isn’t much of a romantic. He once in a blue moon will say something incredibly sweet or do something that makes me feel like I’m loved, but for the most part I don’t feel it. Sometimes it’s just like I’m someone he will hang out with. Like we’re just friends. I feel like he will tell other females how great they are and he cares about other’s well being, but he doesn’t seem to express that same level of concern with me unless I’m literally having a break down.

He told me he thinks about me just as much as he would think about his coworkers. Like, that’s not something I want to hear. I feel like, actually I know, I’m usually the one who has to create a loving moment. I ask for hugs or if I can kiss him. It just doesn’t feel mutual. And I’m pretty much in tears typing this. We’ve been together for years and I’ve dissed so many friends because of him, and now I feel alone. But he has girls who have literally tried to sleep with him that he still talks to on the low.

I’m so confused because it wasn’t always like this. It started probably back in November. I just don’t know what to do.